Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Simala Shrine in CEBU Philippines - Heal Your Sickness


One of the many wonders of cebu is the SIMALA SHRINE. If you wanna have a religious tour, you might as well want to go to this majestic shrine. You can call this is Cebuano PANAAD :) .
  Simala church is located in Sibonga Cebu, and all i can say is "AWESOME PALACE LIKE CHURCH!". It really does looks like a palace to me; because of its elegant structure, you would think that it looks like a Vatican church.

You can took a ride on a bus from Cebu city to Sibonga (it took us 1 and 1/2 hour to arrive at the entry point) then you ride a tricycle all the way up to this majestic church :) wow! the place is very awesome!

More fun in Cebu Philippines!!!



This is the internal view of the church. 


Photos credit to: http://littlefilipina.blogspot.com 

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

5 Lies All Women Tell- Yahoo.com

Out of compulsion, to manipulate you, to manipulate the situation, to salvage the relationship, to willingly destroy the friendship, to be bitchy, to infuse some gossip and fun into an otherwise mundane life.
No matter the reason, women lie.
As do men, but for the purpose of this article we’ll just stick to talking about the fairer sex. And no, no lies will be mentioned here.
Here are five lies that all women tell and very few own up to:

1. "I am not mad at you."

Lie. Lie. Lie. The moment she utters these words, the red flag, heck ALL the red flags you have, must go up. A woman only ever says this when she is fuming with wrath; when she is so angry with you that she wants to burn your sad soul and kick you right into hell. You’d be safe if she is mad at you than when she is not. So, if she isn’t mad at you, please do the needful and make sure she is absolutely mad at you.

2. "You were great!"

If you *actually* were great, she wouldn’t necessarily say it. Instead she’d show you grateful she is. So if she tells you how great you were and raves and rants about it, chances are you were only but mediocre and she is just being nice.

3. "Be honest, I can take it."

This particularly statement is made after she asks you *that* question. The question being: Do I look fat in this?
It’s a trap. A big huge cage from which there is no escape. Any answer or no answer, you’re destined to die out of misery in that cage.
The truth is she cannot take your honesty and if you lie blatantly, she’ll catch you at it. So the trick here is to be moderate in your response; not too flowery, not too mean. Walk the tight-rope well and you might just manage to escape from the cage. PS: No living man has yet managed this feat.
4. "I’m not jealous."
In reality, she is jealous almost all the time. Jealous when you look at that girl walking by, jealous when you talk too much to your friend who is a girl. In all honesty, playful jealousy is fun, necessary even to keep the relationship going. So when she says she is not jealous, smile and kiss her cheek. Forget being jealous, she will just blush.

5. "I never think of my ex."

Everyone thinks of their ex. At some point or the other, we are driven back to times gone by because of a tune or a place or situation or a conversation. It’s okay if she thinks about her ex once in a while, because it is only normal to do so. And if she confesses to *never* thinking of her ex, I’d say something is wrong with her and that you need to assess what that is.

(ccto)

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

How to control your sexual urges?

A good sex life is a very basic human need.
 It often stands unmet, because of competitive lifestyles, leaving no room for personal gratification. In such cases, controlling your urge can become difficult. The following article will show you how you can do so.

1. Acceptance

The first step to control your sexual urges is to accept that there is no shame in feeling this way. Most societal norms deem these urges as moral depravity and force us to bury these feelings, instead of accepting it as a part of life. We are born to believe that sex is sin and sexual urges are an abomination. These urges are nothing but physical needs which only seek fulfillment, in some way or the other. Instinctually, man cannot abort sexual thoughts. With this acceptance and a strong desire to curb it, you can keep your feelings in control.

2. Triggers

The next step to controlling your sexual feelings is to know what sets them off. Admittedly, man is surrounded by sexual innuendoes and signs so obvious, that they are almost a part of our daily lives. When one is sexually satiated, these signs tend to pass by unnoticed, but in the face of sexual starvation, these signs end up titillating more than pacifying. Identifying these triggers will help keep the mind alert enough to steer clear of them.

3. Will Power

When it is considered that with enough will power, one can move a mountain, controlling sexual urges on the same plane should ideally be anyone’s cup of tea. While it is impossible to obliterate sexual thoughts completely, curbing the intensity to a bare minimum will help you get through the day without distractions. A mental reminder, can serve as ample inspiration to help you power through the day without being tempted.

4. Transmutation

Translating your sexual urges to creative outputs will not only take your mind off them, but will help you make something new. At the end of the day, an urge is nothing but a feeling that enforces a lack of the desired object. Thus it is easy to manipulate with an equally engaging creative thought. Read a book, write poetry, paint or make pots. The end product of your misplaced creativity will provide equal satisfaction.

Photo from the Yahoo! Contributor Network
5. Exercise

Focusing your energy on something that consumes most of it and also helps you feel good, is a certain winner. Wake up early and go for a jog, or make swimming thrice a week a habit. You can also hit the gym every morning before work. Whatever be the means, allow your body to get the much-required exercise to keep your mind more in control.
6. Seek Help
If nothing seems to get your mind off sex, this might be the start of a potential problem. If you are in a relationship, try to talk to your partner about these unmet needs. Maybe with regular intercourse, these urges will successfully be siphoned off. If not, then consult your doctor for psychological counselling to find a way out of these extensive urges. Obsessive thinking can be relieved with medication and therapy.
The methods outlined above might help you find a way to keep your uncontrollable sexual urges in check.

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

240 na ang mga patay sa ’Ondoy’

MANILA - Mga awtoridad nabalaka na sab kay posibleng maigo na sab ang nasod sa laing bagyo samtang misaka na ngadto sa 240 ang nangamatay sa bagyong Ondoy.

Matod sa mga forecaster sa panahon nga laing bagyo nga naporma sa Pacific Ocean mosud sa kadagatan sa Pilipinas ug hayan mag landfall ugma sa Luzon gihapon, sama sa bagyong Ondoy.
Sun.Star accepts donations for victims of Typhoon Ondoy
Grabe ang epekto sa bagyong Ondoy kay ang usa ka buwan nga uwan gibundak man sud lang sa usa ka adlaw, hinungdan nga gibahaan ang 80 porsyento sa Metro Manila niadtong Sabado.
Gibana-bana sa mga awtoridad nga 2.34 bilyunes pesos ang danyos sa bagyo.
Mokabat sa 1.8 milyunes ka mga tawo ang apektado ug 370,000 ang niabandonar sa ilang mga balay ug ningdangop sa evacuation centers.
Gidaghanon sa nangamatay gipaabot nga mosaka pa kon moabot na ang mga report gikan sa hilit nga mga dapit.
“For casualties, the increase will be not as great, but the damage figures may increase,” matod ni Defense Secretary Gilbert Teodoro sa usa ka news conference.
Mga rebeldeng komunista ningpahibawo og ceasefire tali sa kasundalohan sa kagamhanan ug nimando sa ilang ginsakpan sa pagtabang sa flood relief operations.
Ang katawhan ug volunteer groups sa nagkadaiyang mga dapit sa nasod nagtigom og mga hinabang, sagad mga senina, mainom nga tubig ug medisina.
Dunay mga tawo mingbukas sab sa ilang balay nga kapuy-an niadtong nangabiktima sa baha ug ningbiya sa ilang mga balay.
Mga sundawong Kano sa Mindanao gidala sa Manila aron motabang sa relief operations, samtang ang United Nations ningpahibawo nga manghatag silag hinabang nga pagkaon ug cash alang sa medical assistance.
Mipadala sab silag usa ka helicopter ug lima ka rubber boats.
Mga opisyal nanawagan sa international community kay hayan di paigo ang resources sa kagamhanan, labina kon moigo na sab ang laing bagyo.
Naluwas sa kasundalohan, kapulisan ug volunteers ang labing minos 12,359 ka mga tawo, apan matod ni Teodoro duna pay mga tawo nga madugangan ang gidaghanon sa mga patay.
Gideklarar sa kagamhanan ubos sa state of calamity ang Metro Manila ug 25 ka mga lalawigan nga nangaigo sab sa bagyo.
Lakip sa nangatanggong sa bagyo mao ang seksing aktres nga si Cristine Reyes ug iyang pamilya, kinsa giluwas sa aktor nga si Richard Gutierrez. (AP/Internet)

Friday, September 18, 2009

Hopes for modern politics

The interesting term “trapo,” as presently used in Philippine politics, is a fusion of two words—“traditional” and “politician.” In the beginning, the preferred word was “tradpol.” But this contraction fell into disuse because, I suspect, it lacked the pejorative power of “trapo,” a piece of worthless cloth meant to wipe off dirt. Over the years, “trapo” mutated in meaning, acquiring moral connotations supplied by the growing negative attitude toward politics in general. Today, the Filipino understanding of “trapo” has little to do with being merely traditional; it has more to do with being dirty and immoral. This is all too ironic, because to be traditional originally meant a commitment to an all-embracing morality in a simple world.
This semantic shift has shaped our understanding of what ails Philippine politics. Against the trapo, we now raise the image of the morally unblemished politician. To fight evil, we are now in quest of the good and moral. But, how do we measure the good in politics? By their personal traits alone, or primarily by their political visions? The depiction of our political opponents as not merely our rivals in the contest for power but as the very incarnation of evil is misleading and dangerous.
For, our problem is not simply that we’ve had bad men and women in politics. Every society does. Our main problem is that our entire political system—the mechanism by which we govern ourselves—has become dysfunctional. It no longer serves the interests of our people in a complex world. Yet it persists, by design and by public acquiescence. The perpetuation of this dysfunctional system is what breeds corruption, incompetence, and misuse of governmental power.
By “political system,” I am not referring merely to the form of government—the choice between a presidential and a parliamentary system, or between a unitary and a federal government. I mean rather the whole system by which we choose the leaders who make decisions in our name. I mean as well the entire quality of the relationship between the governors and the governed.
One word probably best captures the substance of politics in traditional societies like ours—patronage. This refers to the support rendered by superiors to subordinates in exchange for the latter’s loyalty. Given the mass poverty and the sharp inequalities among our people, relations between the rulers and the ruled in our society normally take on the character of patronage. Under this system, the benefits given to the many are represented as acts of benevolence of the rulers, rather than as the legitimate entitlements of the recipients. The ideal leader is kind and generous, rather than knowledgeable and law-abiding. The ideal citizen is loyal and grateful, rather than informed and assertive of his rights.
This culture of patronage so pervades our political life that elections are seen as nothing more than contests to determine who can give more and promise more in the short-term. Accordingly, the image that candidates assiduously cultivate is that of approachability rather than competence, and compassion rather than wisdom. It is personal traits that are projected more than concrete programs of social reconstruction. These are the things that make our politics traditional rather than modern.
It is not because our people do not understand the difference that our political system has remained the way it is. Their dependence certainly stands in the way of a more rational assertion of their rights. But poverty alone does not fully account for the persistence of patronage politics. To complete the picture, we have to look at how the mass organizations of the poor, the peasantry and the working classes in our society have been crushed and demobilized over the years. The remnants of the organized constituencies of a more radical era have either been driven underground, or they have been accommodated as party-list organizations in the margins of the political system.
Today the contest is between the traditional and the modern elements of the political class. Though this is far from being a battle between the elites and the masses, it is no less important. Modernists desire a type of politics that is insulated from political dynasties, business groups and ecclesiastical interests. They seek a strict separation of the powers of government that alone can make checks and balances operational. They prefer the long-term efficacy of a professionally-run and autonomous public bureaucracy over the short-term satisfactions offered by patronage politics. They believe that politics must move away from the contest of personalities and celebrities that it is today, toward a competition of political groups and parties with clear ideologies and coherent programs of government. They seek the total elimination of all forms of violence and arbitrariness from the political system.
We have no choice but to side with the moderns in this contest. Modernity not only will allow us to build a government appropriate to the complex challenges of our times, it will also move us hopefully in the direction of greater democratization in our national life. The struggle for good government has to be understood in these terms, rather than in the simplistic terms of a moral crusade against evil “trapos.”



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Monday, March 9, 2009

35 Passers of KBP exam

OZAMIZ CITY--The Kapisanan ng mga Brodkaster ng Pilipinas (KBP) has released the results of the accreditation examination held last Dec. 13, 2008 at the Misamis University, Ozamiz City.Based on the official paper sent in by Virginia Velasco, KBP standards authority performance officer and obtained by this paper, some 35 examinees passed from among the 51 takers.The total passing rate is 68.62 percent.Leading the passers is Jo Ann Mae Solatorio with a 96 score.Solatorio is the municipal accountant of Mabuhay, Olutanga Island, Zamboanga Sibugay. She is a blocktimer of DxOI, a low-power community radio based in that area.Examinees from DxOI took the first to fifth place in the KBP exam with only Pagadian’s DxWO and DxDD tying the fourth place.DxOI, with 13, and DxDD, with 12, composed half of the examiners. From among the stations in Ozamiz, DxSY has 8; Ronda Balita has 4, DxOC with 3 and one from MBNN-TV.Aside from DxOI, five examinees from DxUM also took the KBP accreditation examination which is made up of multiple choice and case analysis questions.Genelisa Piedad, an intern DxDD and the youngest among the examinees, told PANGUIL BAY MONITOR the exam was “both easy and difficult.”She sees her passing as an employment opportunity in the future and “a license to become a professional bearer of the freedom of speech.”The KBP exam passers will still have to undergo performance evaluation by their respective station managers before being issued KBP accreditation cards.The evaluation results will then be submitted to the KBP provincial chapter head, who will in turn forward them to the KBP national offfice.Those who failed will be issued temporary accreditation cards valid for five months to give them time to review and take the exam again before the card expires.Under the KBP Broadcast Code, all personnel who go on air, including blocktimers, should be accredited to ensure that minimum standards of broadcast professionalism are met. (PANGUIL BAY MONITOR)